Observed…

Case-1:

He loved her. She did not. He thought that was fair game. He continued living life as before and doing new and different things. Now, she is married to someone else.

Case-2

He loved her. She did not. He thought that was unfair. He started drinking. He asked her again. Still No. He started doing drugs. He asked her. Still no. He tried to OD on sleeping pills. Still no. He tried some other way to kill himself. She relents. Now, she is married to him, and he is doing new and different things.

Case-3

He liked her. Her parents and family liked him. His parents and family liked her. She was asked to like him. They married. Now, they fight daily.

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  1. #1 by Ammalu on June 20, 2009 - 12:00 am

    is this imagination or observation?

  2. #2 by kaushik on June 21, 2009 - 3:13 am

    Reality…story of friends/ acquaintances

  3. #3 by moi on June 22, 2009 - 3:11 pm

    the irony is : the post made me smile!!!!! i dont think it was supposed to or was it???

    • #4 by Kaushik on June 22, 2009 - 3:36 pm

      Swati,
      I had no intentions of making anyone smile or Not smile after reading it…. It was just something I observed, while speaking to my sister a few days ago…

      No irony 🙂

  4. #5 by Janani on June 22, 2009 - 4:33 pm

    Does Case 2 even happen? My instinct would be to run far far away from He.

    Case 1 seems to be the most practical and Case 3 the most probable!

    • #6 by Kaushik on June 22, 2009 - 4:56 pm

      Hey Janani!
      Welcome back and Congrats!
      I repeat…All 3 cases have happened!

      PS: Are you still in Madison?

  5. #7 by sachita on June 22, 2009 - 4:46 pm

    Case -2 is scary, you know!

    • #8 by Kaushik on June 22, 2009 - 4:55 pm

      yup, it is…but it has happened with a couple I am acquainted with

  6. #9 by Madhavan on June 23, 2009 - 8:01 am

    Case-1 Realist
    Case-2 Man- Opportunist, Woman –Submissive
    Case-3 Risk taker

    • #10 by Kaushik on June 23, 2009 - 11:39 am

      maddy!
      willkommen und danke !!!

  7. #11 by Janani on June 23, 2009 - 10:57 am

    Hmm, I guess it takes all kinds to make the world.

    Neways, Hi again 🙂 Am still in Madison.

  8. #12 by Anjana R on June 23, 2009 - 1:26 pm

    thats a lot of melodrama! indian men need to get a life. 😛

    • #13 by Kaushik on June 23, 2009 - 2:48 pm

      arre! why don’t you use a single email address?

  9. #14 by Vinay on June 24, 2009 - 4:36 am

    Case 2: He is doing new and different things! Like? Figuring new ways of blackmailing her? With an OD on sleeping pills he tried the same with her.

    Anyways, seems you have interesting company! All my friends are like those fairy tales… they married and lived happily ever after

    • #15 by Kaushik on June 24, 2009 - 9:58 pm

      Yup! I have crazy acquaintances….and lots of filmy stories floating around….compared to those, I lead an un-eventful life

  10. #16 by Sriram on July 6, 2009 - 11:46 pm

    i’ve seen mostly case 1’s. ive heard of case 3’s.

    case 2 is crazy. it reminded me of a post i wrote to someone who was in the threshold of case 2.

    http://sriramble.blogspot.com/2009/03/life-goes-on.html

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